Published in An Injustice!·Jan 5How Do You Move On When the Wrong People Think They’re the Real Victim?Interplay between victims and perpetrators: those who owned slaves/were slaves, Germans/Israelis of the Holocaust, or oppressors/ indigenous people. At a glance Condoleezza Rice ignites a firestorm on The View The alleged consequences of teaching critical race theory The foundation of America was built on race Focus on the system, not individuals Properly taught…Critical Race Theory15 min read
Published in Sparks Publication·Jan 4Personal Journey: How to Ride Your Emotions as You Change for the BetterMy journey through Fisher’s process of transition — John Fisher depicts the emotional roller coaster we ride during a change. Jean uses the graphic to illustrate her journey toward realizing a vision. This new year, are you considering embarking on the daunting task of personal change? Every year or so, I take this on big time. I refer…Change Your Life10 min read
Published in Cultured·Nov 27, 2021Do People You Love Put Down Critical Race Theory? Here’s What to SayOn June 16, Texas Gov. Greg Abbott signed a law forbidding lessons about critical race theory or systemic racism. With the passage of this bill, Texas joins other states that have passed similar bills, claiming to take politics out of schools. …Critical Race Theory15 min read
Published in An Injustice!·Nov 17, 2021Which Is More Effective: To Label it Racism or to Suggest Another Way?Calling people racist is a fear appeal and only people with high self-efficacy (secure in their capacity to change) are likely to respond to it — Earlier this year I had one of those conversations that has stuck with me. I casually mentioned to a White colleague that I seldom use the terms “racist” or “racism.” He was appalled. …Racism13 min read
Published in The Antagonist Magazine·May 6, 2021From Peril to Promise: How to Make Racial Dialogue WorkEvaluating the immediate need to suppress emotions against the perils of needing to be heard in predominantly White settings is exhausting — People all over this country are seeking to engage in racial dialogue. The goal within organizations is to heal, first by surfacing racial divisions and people’s disparate points of view. Then, armed with this knowledge, build a more inclusive organization. How are people in an organization supposed to move from…Inclusivity10 min read
Jan 8, 2021How to Make Fear Work for YouPeople ask me, “How do I get rid of my fear?” Then they wait for the magic bullet. My answer: eliminating fear is not a desirable goal. Fear helps keep the species alive. It alerts us to danger as well as opportunity. …Managing Stress10 min read
Sep 24, 2020A Rose by Any Other Name is Still a Rose: Why Labels MatterPeople often ask me how to refer to various ethnic/racial groups. What’s better, Black or African American? If it’s okay to say “people of color”, why not say “colored person”? First, my history, then a deep dive into how complicated a subject it is.Race11 min read